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The other person may not look needy, but something in us senses that they could be better with our help, and the dance begins.
“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” Romans 12:2 NASB