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“Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.” Phil. 4:5 NIV
We don't have to fix, rescue, or control others nor should we allow them to control us. We're free to care for ourselves and seek change in our own lives.
Codependency is an adaptive coping mechanism used compulsively by those who seek to obtain a personal sense of worth and value through meeting the perceived needs of others.