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“What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” Philippians 4:9
The other person may not look needy, but something in us senses that they could be better with our help, and the dance begins.
We don't have to fix, rescue, or control others nor should we allow them to control us. We're free to care for ourselves and seek change in our own lives.